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Sunday, August 14, 2011

The Power of Words

Remember when we were little?
Remember chanting?

Sticks and stones can break my bones,
But words will never hurt me

I'm not so sure about that
because words?
They can hurt.
They can hurt deeply.

And it broke this momma's hurt to see my baby hurting yesterday because of words.
"I'm not your friend any more!"
Those are some powerful words...
Words that cut to the core when you are in elementary school.
Words that go deep.
Words that devastate.
Words that are usually spoken more for the effect than for the true meaning.
Words that can break a heart.
Words that made my sweet girl sob uncontrollably all the way home.
Words that sparked a conversation about forgiveness.
Words that are not easily forgotten.

Gosh it's hard to be eight and have to experience the power of words.

I sure wish that old chant was true!


KERRY said...

Oh I totally agree. As much as we try to tell them not to worry about it, they're so young so of course they do worry. It's difficult being a kid at times, and as mum's we know what is around the corner the older they get. Some kids can be so cruel :(

Sonishka said...

I know. I sometimes think that words can hurt more than actions because u hear them in your head over and over.
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